OYOS: Repertoire of Excellence

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Since I’ve been around for a year or so now I have been thinking intently about all the years that has led up to this level that I’m on now. How much I’ve given other people and what I give to myself.

For years up until I started my website I dedicated myself to helping other people walk into their greatness. Is and always will be my calling, I have never really cared about me the type of money I make and the sacrifices I’ve made for others so long as they gave of them everything towards their greatness.

I never blamed any of them for their failure, they just wasn’t ready for the intensity it takes, with that though I noticed all the pitfalls in having to create the right measured for your success. I spoke about this in Talent, Execution and Elite Mentality, University of Self and Being an Elite Level Producer, these are all seeds to my understanding of what it takes.

What I learned from producing other people is no one is willing to make the sacrifices I’m willing to make for our mutual benefit. For years I toiled learned and failed, not in big ways but to the degree that people were too okay with ordinary successes and were not ready for the extraordinary success I would want to provide.

That was fine though. Massive success isn’t for everyone so I move on and leave people to their own devices. Then it dawned on me that no one I know really had a local example of massive success. People are drawn to it but don’t know what it looks like day to day and because of “instant success” people think it’s supposed to happen to them right away when in reality it’s a daily thing that you deliver on weekly monthly quarterly and so forth.

This example of excellence is very foreign and day to day the stacking effect isn’t exposed. For me right now this effect is on full display there’s so much that goes into every blog, article, essay, post that there happens to be no accidents. I’m not necessarily talking about the average everyday zeitgeist topics that are referenced day to day, but this is part of a mission now to expose what grand planning looks like day to day. It starts with OYOS and lives by it.

Everyday a new seed is planted more wood for the ship is cured and the foundation of excellence being built in front of their very eyes in hopes to inspire and expose what it takes. Not just in quality but in speed. In this day and age you need speed and quality but that only comes with high vision and high concept production and execution of proof of concept.

I will break these down further I just want to start with the laying of the field. Planting these understandings for the people that want and need them. It’s important for me to have them out there.

This is the Movement of my Dial

Damilare. Not Your Typical

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Rhyme & Reason: Make the decision to live on purpose #PrimeNYT

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Recently I had a revelation and that revelation can’t be explained outside context and that context comes in a question — That question is; who do you want to be?

I asked myself this question for a short amount of time (Macro). It took me months to wrap my head round who I wanted to be it took me months. Not to plan my life or how I want to make money or what job I want. Those are still being understood, what I really ended up doing for years was asking myself who I wanted to be.

I knew this question was important because I have earned enough money/ known I can make a commission of my skills/ get a contract and I’ve gained enough notoriety and fame to where people knew me for one thing and in all of that I never felt whole.

I’ve come to find out I had to ask myself who do I want to be. I was blessed with gifts and an amazing talent which has earned me many creative skill which means I earned choice and the thing with choice is when you have to much life can get tricky when you’re starting out because you know no matter what you can always find another way. However to really win in life you need to make a choice within your options, and I have an abundance of options to choose from which opens doors for me but that doesn’t always means those opportunities are mine.

I have never felt good doing just anything and making money in “whatever way I can”. I have always been intentional and wanted to live my life on purpose. I have the intense ability to work hard and work a lot that isn’t the case for everyone but for me it meant these choices were not all the way positive because if I’m someone that lives life on purpose I have to make the decision and choose who I want to be. So I asked myself who do I want to be and make the decision.

What I learned in my abundance of opportunities because of my skill is that not every opportunity is right for me and I had to give myself a guiding philosophy and live by principles that made sense for what I wanted to engage in long term. These philosophies and principle came from all the questions I asked myself for years on end in order to truly gauge what really matters, as when I found out what mattered I found my purpose and when I found my purpose I truly distinguished myself as someone who knew what they were doing.

You see it’s not the statement of me living life on purpose that’s the key it’s my principles as a humans I created in determining what I want to do with my life that bought me to the answer of the question “who do I want to be”. I find no matter who you are if you find the answer to that you will live a more meaningful life, not an easier one or a more fun one more meaningful because you were a better person.

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Rhyme and Reason: What are you REALLY willing to do to become Yourself — By Principle not Profit #PrimeNYT

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Do people know they can be an artist without being a celebrity and full blown tour entertainer ?

If your role in life is artist you should be very happy with being able to live off the land travel and be a human person not bonded by the prism of how we should be.

Isn’t being an artist not needing to be held by the standard of economics people think they should live by.

I’d go as far to say you would be very being a bum (by social standards) than having to conform to social and economic norms, because you are very happy producing art

This ideal goes the same for soldier, policeman, teacher, fireman, social activist And everyone else who lives by a moralistic standard and not economic one

Certain jobs don’t arise for economic purposes they derive value from how they feed you as a person and come from core beliefs and principle… The only question is how far are you willing to go for those?

This is not one of those times where I say “maybe I’m the weird one” . This is truly the understanding of living by a standard of morals and upholding principles of it than succumbing to economic ideologues who say ‘… should get paid more than footballers’

These professions aren’t about the money they are about the principle and by principle economics does not dictate how good this person is at their job

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Rhyme and Reason: Where does the Light giver turn to? God is the one I turn to #PrimeNYT

Bless up from your feet to your head top, keep your neck up,

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People have often asked me “if you’re everyone’s person, who do you turn to” my answer has been silent for a long time.

That absence of an answer has left me longing for a human connection with someone that understands me, who I am & what I go through. For so long I had asked myself questions; deep penetrating questions since I was a kid. I would talk to myself everyday trying to figure it out and of the parts I did have figured out I would share it with people.

This had people coming back to me for some time but it would not have them respect me as a person I would be someone they take from but would never feel a need to give back to. I would shield them from forsakers when they were not looking and I wouldn’t look for thanks I would want them to be good.

As a person I would expect them to be better humans because no one was coming after them, instead they felt untouchable and that they didn’t need me… my own folly. The day they left would induce a fall from grace, I never liked that not ever.

In 2016-2018 I found myself being the weirdos amongst artists, no one really to relate to, no one who understood me, no one to challenge me or to channel the energy I put out back into me.

So I sit in my room and contemplate my existence hours on end searching for reason and meaning bringing myself to a place to that I can say I like, the meaning I sought after has taken me away from vices and certain toxic behaviour and brought me to a calmer status of life.

The only person I can truly talk to is myself and the only person I lean on is God.

‘Lean on me when you’re not strong, I’ll help you carry on, for it won’t be long till I’m going to need somebody to lean on.’

Such a statement on the world I can’t help but think about while writing this, I ask and God responds. I just want to be a better person for myself and for the people in this world and I find the questions I ask no one, not one of my contemporaries can answer; there is no peer or mentor who feels to seek within themselves a better them in this life. Some of us seek money and admiration, I seek myself on my time on this Earth.

Funny thing is I know exactly who I am and exactly what I am supposed to do I am really just compelled by human persuasion thinking someone like me can’t be accepted by the likes of them. Most of all the people I look up to have been killed by humans, what type of future does that bode for someone like me?

So I turn to God, ask him why me, why this way, why love, why do so many people despair, why can I wash it away, why does speaking to me make other people feel better, why can I draw out somebody’s greatness. The questions go on and on and they roll around my mind seeking to be answered now not by man but by God, I know exactly what I’m capable of why can’t I be selfish with it. Why don’t I care about money or admiration or love of people who are not God? I have no idea how to answer those question and I know those questions aren’t of this world either.

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#PrimeNYT Culture and Camaraderie Podcast: Episode 7 — My Families Success is My Success (@camaraderiepod)

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Its either the energy of PrimeNYT I got going on but I really didn’t expect us to be going off like this on our recent episode, like for real… My families success is my success and breaking that down for the people and going on about being open and striving and hustling and how we sometimes fall short but as men have to find a way to get back up.

These are the codes…

Responsibility to ourselves and responsibility to the people around us and how much of that we take on the chin. As a leader I put the weight and success of all others on myself because I’m sure I can take it but there are some people who I shouldn’t be taking responsibility for because they aren’t my friends and I have to know the difference.

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When we speak on responsibility family and success and whether or not we choose to be a leader for others all things all people want must be congruent and there should be a ways you can take someone’s success under your wing as I see it. How though, how competent do any of us feel to shoulder that responsibility because there are so many things you got to learn to get to that stage the little and important lessons of dealing with people

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Culture and Camaraderie Podcast: Ep7 — Negotiating With Time (@camaraderiepod)

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I am so happy and grateful we’re able to bring another episode, this episode is genuinely one of our most introspective episodes and I feel it is our best conversation to date. Talking about things as personal we do, we came together and decided to speak about ourselves and the roles we play in each other’s lives as well as our families and what that means when you’re the creative of the family.

We kicked it off talking about how our weeks went Tyler has got a new job and is exploring new territories in his life, while I see this we speak on what these new factors involved, when we speak on #30DBC and all that it took Tyler to accomplish what he did and having it stop so abruptly having to get to the real reasons that happened and how we’ll be about to move forward from it.

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Our conversation was really deep and centered around family a lot as well as relationships which was really the expanded conversation of the last part of our previous podcast speaking on our Relationship with Family and Community because to be really real if we’re going to be leaders, win or lose, we have to accept what comes at us. I used to speak of Damocles a lot it’s important to not here, we wear the crown because we bear the responsibility.

Responsibility to ourselves and responsibility to the people around us and how much of that we take on the chin. As a leader I put the weight and success of all others on myself because I’m sure I can take it but there are some people who I shouldn’t be taking responsibility for because they aren’t my friends and I have to know the difference.

When we speak on responsibility family and success and whether or not we choose to be a leader for others all things all people want must be congruent and there should be a ways you can take someone’s success under your wing as I see it. How though, how competent do any of us feel to shoulder that responsibility because there are so many things you got to learn to get to that stage the little and important lessons of dealing with people

Whatever Moves Your Dial

Not Your Typical

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Culture and Camaraderie Podcast: Ep6 — Relationships with Community and Family (@camaraderiepod)

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Here we are on the Sixth episode of the Culture and Camaraderie podcast. Tyler and `I are really getting our act together and setting aside our time and schedules to bring to you this content a few asked for and a few more are enjoying.

Brief intermission on some anime talk till we go into being informed on what your community needs from you to really dig deep and have your eyes open to that type of value that’s in the world. I really want to get into that more and will possibly write an article on it. Those relationships though come when you have a grasp on how you were trained at home, making sure you’re not so defensive and taking things personal you’re able to take aboard new ideas and offer the best.

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That all starts at home and I have a serious conversation about how much your family represents how you see the outside world and I give some real thoughts on that because its a conversation that I take very seriously due to how hard and how serious I take family.

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Follow my socials Instagram: @nytypical Twitter: @nytypical

To learn more about Owning Your Own Ship – OYOS  

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