OYOS On Top of Your Game

You said you were gonna do something and didn’t. Wow, there are no words for the thing I feel when I don’t execute. It has to be the most uncomfortable feeling there is out there. To say to yourself completely and wholly believe that I was going to do it. A man must take the utmost responsibility for who he is and who he portrays himself to be. You’ve created this image, this veneer, it is your responsibility for anything that comes your way.

Someone so controlled and excellent with words must be wary as their ability to string what must seem like the perfect sentence can come off as honesty, slight or anger when their intentions aren’t aligned with what they say. I cannot just be so cavalier about what I say – I can/can’t/will/won’t do -, this is your moment this is your time to make a mark, your words really do become opportunities. you’ve said you were good at this thing for so long have you taken the time to get great.

There have been really crucial moments where I have given my CV out and my qualifications and experience were perfect but my recent portfolio didn’t match, not because my skills are average but because my what I had to show for myself was. Whether or not I’m excellent, the business doesn’t care my work got deleted, whether my Equipment wasn’t running well at the time, or all the digital files for said work got wiped. It is still my responsibility to make sure that happens less and less. I take full ownership of my fuck ups because they’re mine and I do my best to find an equal or better solution to my problem.

With age comes experience – or people assume so. Theres going to be a time you won’t get that junior position phone call anymore. Your graduation date tips off your minimum age so people will be looking for more experienced work from you. Can you show it? Not saying your work must be worlds apart in the effort put in – we learn to work smarter not harder in an office space. You’re given a key role, does the story in your portfolio reflect that? I’ve noticed this isn’t just artistically, in creative studios. (Business smarts dictate you record how you made a business better, how many sales you made and your value to that company in the time you were there. A case study.) Is the freelance work your doing telling a story of you being able to give more & earn more? EVEN IF ITS FOR FREE! Are the case studies you put together going to pay off? Are your presentation boards in order? The Pitch decks, selling? Real questions you got to ask yourself. You better hope they are, for you not for them. As long as those are in order you will be able to accomplish all things, because when you have all of these things on record you gain something with leverage. Have you been in the position where the work you are doing for a job role is more than was required of you and wasn’t on your responsibilities list? See, that’s what I’m talking about. Now you’re thinking like a pro, that’s leverage.

With age comes experience or it’s assumed to be. during this 23-27 period before you get your more senior /mid-level serious  job offers coming in only so much is asked of you, it is only for us to find out what that is. When you said you were gonna accomplish something for this particular position or path you chose remember you must work for your betterment as well as the betterment of the company. You don’t need to go it alone or Run your own enterprise to know you must be accountable for your own words, your own actions, when you said you were going to do something go do it.

There have been times where I took time off in my sales jobs. (My past doesn’t lie everything is recorded) my performance told me the truth at that moment, I was unable to repeat the results of the past. I didn’t know I wasn’t my past accolades, what I done in University was for them, what I done for my previous job was for them, what I do today is for me, its for this moment.

What I really mean by that is never lose the enthusiasm and never – by any means – rest on your laurels. When I learned this is when I started learning about personal production and positioning. To be able to create my own value just as I did like a spry kid selling chocolates out my backpack and Iced juice during summer terms, of school. I am to be the guy that always produced the goods in the moment I need them most. The best way to do that is to always be ready so you never have to get ready. Knowing my timings, assessing my skill level making sure my CV is up-to-date (as in I can still do all the things I said I could do) are all part of this game called Professional Careers

always remember,

Whatever Moves Your Dial

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The Culture of the 20’s

This in part is my true artistic sentiment. The essence of the quality I see coming to fruition after long and time consuming study this is an observation from a creative.

The times we live in lends itself to the democratisation of celebrity (a topic I think much on) and it’s ability to create micro communities round certain outspoken people. Where there’s no longer Hollywood & the media telling the culture what is in. This is such a powerful thing after watching it grow and progress the past four years I see how the internet as we know it really does not even know what it is or wants to be and it is truly in its infancy. Telling me just as Hollywood when moving pictures were a thing and cabaret was all they could make this is the age that we also have to deal with. Hundreds of people will loads of micro talents getting it how they live – by no means is this a bad thing – those that capitalise properly with honest gifts will stay in their well earned positions.

I’ve got it into my head that the Twenties [2020] will be a Renaissance for Millenials. Religious paintings exchanged for hyperrealism, debutants exchanged for beauty and fashion influencers, villages move from real life to for group chats about our favourite celeb sensation. As we get into more senior positions, and we start putting things into programming that we enjoy there will be a true story told of this show and prove nature. Many micro communities believe their story is the right story to tell and everyone is trying to get it there is no mistaking anymore talent is everywhere on every block. It just hasn’t had the light to shine yet. Everybody has at least one story; the greats have many & the super creatives never cease to amaze. So where will the hot spot of the twenties be, where will our new Hollywood and new Silicon Valley be situated. There is enough room for everybody but there is no faking when the cream rises to the top.

When I think about This West African Art Revolution as well as Afrofuturism and These Korean Pop/Fashion sensation that seems to be sweeping western society -to name a couple – I can only thank the Internet and the Bogarde of information being lifted. America has had a true monopoly and I don’t see it lasting into the 30’s wherever the next great migration of talent will be that place in the early days will be teaming with talent trying to make their mark and being ready for their one true leader to take form.
I have so many predictions on how it will take form and maybe I’ll share them. For now though I just want this to serve as a footnote of me noticing it’s happening and others to become as aware as I of the fruits our generation is about to bear. There’s something so beautiful about this time, it’s better for me to just live in the now.

What will our Paris in the 20’s be like

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